Christmas
for the Marley family starts the night before, when we choose a favourite
Christmas movie to watch, usually Elf.
When the children were younger, I would read them ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas, and then we’d look out the window
to try and see the lights on Father Christmas’s sleigh. We would leave a mince
pie out for Father Christmas, and a carrot for his reindeer, and have no
trouble persuading the children to go to bed early. Unfortunately they would wake
up early too, eager to see what Father Christmas had brought, but now they’re
teenagers we get to wake them. I think this is known as ‘payback’.
 |
| It snows a lot in Wales... |
Because
my husband is convinced we’ll be burgled if we leave the presents beneath the
tree, he doesn’t put them out until everyone has gone to bed the night before.
This means when we come downstairs on Christmas morning, the tree lights are on
and it all looks very magical. This is a minor Christmas miracle in itself as
fairy lights hate me and I have to buy new ones every year. As we all believe in
Father Christmas, including the teenagers (they’re not daft!), we all have
Christmas stockings, but we open our main presents after breakfast. While
everyone plays with their new ‘toys’, I cook Christmas dinner – accompanied by
loud, cheesy Christmas music and a glass of champagne.
 |
| Each decoration tells a story... |
We
have a traditional Christmas dinner, which we always eat at lunchtime – I have
no idea why! Afterwards, we force the teenagers to play an old-fashioned board
game, usually The Simpson’s version
of Cluedo or Scrabble, and then, if they’ve been really good, we allow them to beat us on
their new video games.
 |
| Four Marleys with three degrees between us, plus one writer - and this is the best we could come up with... |
Of
course, Christmas doesn’t always go according
to plan. Actually, it hardly ever goes according to plan, but the most
disastrous one was when we were snowed in. I’d ordered all the presents online
as well as the Christmas groceries to be delivered – and nothing arrived! It
was Christmas Eve before the roads had cleared enough for us to inch our way to
the nearest supermarket, fill a trolley and skid back home.
 |
| Yes, that's me. On a sledge. |
Strangely
enough, that Christmas turned out to be our best one ever. Instead of a
‘traditional’ Christmas, we built snowmen and went sledging – and I made a
start on writing a snow-themed story that turned into Something Wicked...
This post previously appeared on Becca's Books
Related Posts:
That was a lovely post, Louise. Nice to read before this nonstop Christmas Eve/Day madness begins. I am in a house that's filled with kids and cookies, and wrapping paper. Laughter. And music. Still, I am all too aware there is an empty chair, there are no presents under the tree that say Love, from Don (or Pop). But he's here, I see him in eyes that suddenly have a far away look, hear him in remembered music. We'll sing Christmas songs, play board games, eat too much chocolate... We'll miss his Christmas culinary surprises - and my grandson's will be the deep voice reading T'was the Night Before Christmas this year. But we will be joyful. We all know he wouldn't have it any other way. It's Christmas.
ReplyDeleteOh, Jen! I'm so sorry for your loss! And Christmas is the worst time, especially the first year. But I hope you find comfort from having your family with you at this difficult time. Love Louise x
DeleteThank you, Louise. Family got me through but is it okay if I say I'm glad the holiday season is almost over?
DeleteApologies for the messy post, Louise, was dictating. Still can't type, broken wing still mending. MERRY CHRISTMAS! (Hunt & pecked that bit out with one finger.) Let the madness begin!
ReplyDelete